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		<title>By: Jeanne Dininni</title>
		<link>http://wordsforhirellc.com/blog/2008/09/24/mid-week-musings/comment-page-1/#comment-9507</link>
		<dc:creator>Jeanne Dininni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 17:43:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wonderful idea!  It&#039;s so easy to keep falling back into that same trap -- even after we&#039;ve managed to escape it a time or two!  There&#039;s definitely something to be said for holding one another accountable in the ongoing quest for balance!

So, Karen...

What have you been doing or planning lately to give yourself a break from the rat race?  What strides -- or even &lt;i&gt;baby steps&lt;/i&gt; -- have you been making toward a more balanced, restful, peaceful life?  Even if they haven&#039;t yet been translated into action, what thought-pattern transformations -- or paradigm shifts -- have been occurring for you lately that have begun preparing you for action?  I&#039;d love to help you celebrate your big -- or &lt;i&gt;little&lt;/i&gt; -- successes!

Your (first?) life-balance support group member,
Jeanne</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wonderful idea!  It&#8217;s so easy to keep falling back into that same trap &#8212; even after we&#8217;ve managed to escape it a time or two!  There&#8217;s definitely something to be said for holding one another accountable in the ongoing quest for balance!</p>
<p>So, Karen&#8230;</p>
<p>What have you been doing or planning lately to give yourself a break from the rat race?  What strides &#8212; or even <i>baby steps</i> &#8212; have you been making toward a more balanced, restful, peaceful life?  Even if they haven&#8217;t yet been translated into action, what thought-pattern transformations &#8212; or paradigm shifts &#8212; have been occurring for you lately that have begun preparing you for action?  I&#8217;d love to help you celebrate your big &#8212; or <i>little</i> &#8212; successes!</p>
<p>Your (first?) life-balance support group member,<br />
Jeanne</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Swim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Swim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 11:45:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jeanne, you said it! :-) It is much too easy to put it off. A friend asked last night if I had done anything fun and I stammered. I had to sadly admit that I had not planned any fun into my life lately, too bogged down with the shoulds! Not good!! Let&#039;s form a support group and help each other remember to balance our lives. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jeanne, you said it! <img src='http://wordsforhirellc.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  It is much too easy to put it off. A friend asked last night if I had done anything fun and I stammered. I had to sadly admit that I had not planned any fun into my life lately, too bogged down with the shoulds! Not good!! Let&#8217;s form a support group and help each other remember to balance our lives. <img src='http://wordsforhirellc.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Jeanne Dininni</title>
		<link>http://wordsforhirellc.com/blog/2008/09/24/mid-week-musings/comment-page-1/#comment-9495</link>
		<dc:creator>Jeanne Dininni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 05:49:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Karen,

It&#039;s so easy to fall prey to the Someday Syndrome -- much &lt;i&gt;too&lt;/i&gt; easy!  I&#039;m trying to learn to savor life&#039;s moments as much as I can...to pay more attention to the important people in my life...to allow  myself the luxury of a little more rest and relaxation, a little more &lt;i&gt;sleep&lt;/i&gt;, and a little more fun, instead of feeling as if I must be accomplishing something all the time.  It&#039;s so incredibly liberating to be free of the constant &lt;i&gt;shoulds!&lt;/i&gt;

Thanks for a great reminder!
Jeanne</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Karen,</p>
<p>It&#8217;s so easy to fall prey to the Someday Syndrome &#8212; much <i>too</i> easy!  I&#8217;m trying to learn to savor life&#8217;s moments as much as I can&#8230;to pay more attention to the important people in my life&#8230;to allow  myself the luxury of a little more rest and relaxation, a little more <i>sleep</i>, and a little more fun, instead of feeling as if I must be accomplishing something all the time.  It&#8217;s so incredibly liberating to be free of the constant <i>shoulds!</i></p>
<p>Thanks for a great reminder!<br />
Jeanne</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Putz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Putz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 12:18:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, Amy and I had a great lunch!  Are you coming to SOBCon &#039;09?  I&#039;d love to meet you then!

Karen Putzs last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://deafmomworld.com/karen-putz-and-amy-derby-do-lunch/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Karen Putz and Amy Derby Do Lunch&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, Amy and I had a great lunch!  Are you coming to SOBCon &#8216;09?  I&#8217;d love to meet you then!</p>
<p>Karen Putzs last blog post..<a href="http://deafmomworld.com/karen-putz-and-amy-derby-do-lunch/" rel="nofollow">Karen Putz and Amy Derby Do Lunch</a></p>
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		<title>By: Karen Swim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Swim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 12:09:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Karen, that is a wonderful reminder to cherish the time we have and to leave no words unspoken. I am so glad that you and your family were able to spend time with your parents this summer. Ooh, you and Amy did lunch? I can&#039;t wait to read, I&#039;m so behind this week!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Karen, that is a wonderful reminder to cherish the time we have and to leave no words unspoken. I am so glad that you and your family were able to spend time with your parents this summer. Ooh, you and Amy did lunch? I can&#8217;t wait to read, I&#8217;m so behind this week!</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Swim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Swim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 12:07:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brad, ROFL! I am both sorry and secretly cheering that the conversation was engaging. The conversation has been amazing for me too and I have wisely allowed it to simply unfold. I hope you get caught up on work. :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brad, ROFL! I am both sorry and secretly cheering that the conversation was engaging. The conversation has been amazing for me too and I have wisely allowed it to simply unfold. I hope you get caught up on work. <img src='http://wordsforhirellc.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Karen Putz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Putz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 11:53:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Karen, 

I find myself so much more concious of time lately, because I spent an intense summer with my parents who are in their 80&#039;s.  The clock is quietly ticking in the background and I&#039;m grabbing what I can.

Karen Putzs last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://deafmomworld.com/karen-putz-and-amy-derby-do-lunch/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Karen Putz and Amy Derby Do Lunch&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Karen, </p>
<p>I find myself so much more concious of time lately, because I spent an intense summer with my parents who are in their 80&#8217;s.  The clock is quietly ticking in the background and I&#8217;m grabbing what I can.</p>
<p>Karen Putzs last blog post..<a href="http://deafmomworld.com/karen-putz-and-amy-derby-do-lunch/" rel="nofollow">Karen Putz and Amy Derby Do Lunch</a></p>
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		<title>By: Brad Shorr</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brad Shorr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 13:25:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Karen, it&#039;s so ironic that you post about time management today, on the heels of your post yesterday on the meaning of reality. That one completely derailed my time management schedule for the week, because the conversation was so though provoking. I&#039;m still reading and pondering comments!

Brad Shorrs last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.wordsellinc.com/blog/copywriting/in-praise-of-one-liners/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;In Praise of One Liners&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Karen, it&#8217;s so ironic that you post about time management today, on the heels of your post yesterday on the meaning of reality. That one completely derailed my time management schedule for the week, because the conversation was so though provoking. I&#8217;m still reading and pondering comments!</p>
<p>Brad Shorrs last blog post..<a href="http://www.wordsellinc.com/blog/copywriting/in-praise-of-one-liners/" rel="nofollow">In Praise of One Liners</a></p>
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		<title>By: Karen Swim</title>
		<link>http://wordsforhirellc.com/blog/2008/09/24/mid-week-musings/comment-page-1/#comment-9439</link>
		<dc:creator>Karen Swim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 12:47:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Note to self: when you write about time forces conspire to steal it! Hey Everyone! Sorry for the late response but  gremlins stole my day yesterday. I was able to escape late last night but by that time all I could do was muster enough energy to sleep! 

@Joanna, &quot;taking time, and what happens in it, as it is, rather than trying to impose my will on it. &quot; I love, love love this thought. I believe in African culture they adhere to the theory of moving in time, rather than dictating time. What a beautiful way to think and live. As for the themes, Monday was an experiment and I decided to keep going with it. It felt right to have order this week. As for next week, only time will tell. :-)

@Jamie, welcome back!!! I missed you! Loved your post today! Laughing should be the national pasttime. I highly recommend it. As an added bonus it also works your abs! Gotta love laughter!

@Rebecca, I think you hit the nail on the head when you said you&#039;re at peace when not everything gets done. Too often people allow &quot;the list&quot; to control their state of mind. Your attitude seems very healthy.

@Melissa, I always picture you with happy music playing in the background dancing through your day. From what you&#039;ve shared with your readers, you do seem to find a way to strike a good balance. Freelancing can definitely lead to burn out if you don&#039;t put yourself on the agenda. It is good that you have been able to recognize that and fight to prevent it.

@Seamus, it was well deserved link love. I saw your blog name over at MWP and had to rush over to read. I was delighted and hooked. We could be fish food tomorrow. Some find that morbid but an awareness of our mortality is a good reminder to sniff while we can! :-)

@Evelyn, I like your attitude! My changes came as I went through life transitions. Was there a particular trigger for you or did you just reach a point where you got tired of being productive all the time?

@Alex, :-) You are such a warm, sweet soul. I&#039;m like you. On the weekends I power down. I spend very little time on the computer and am not at all freaked out about not checking email, etc. 

@Ulla, you graciously share that serenity with us through your photographs, and I am so thankful you do. I often feel like I&#039;ve been on  mini-vacation when I leave your blog. I&#039;m all for getting things done too but there&#039;s more to life, in my humble opinion. :-)

@Amy, yay! So good to see you!!! :-) I have been counting down the days when you return. I think we all have seasons in life when we have less play time. The trick I think is to contain it to a season and not a lifetime. That&#039;s when life seems to slip away far too quickly.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Note to self: when you write about time forces conspire to steal it! Hey Everyone! Sorry for the late response but  gremlins stole my day yesterday. I was able to escape late last night but by that time all I could do was muster enough energy to sleep! </p>
<p>@Joanna, &#8220;taking time, and what happens in it, as it is, rather than trying to impose my will on it. &#8221; I love, love love this thought. I believe in African culture they adhere to the theory of moving in time, rather than dictating time. What a beautiful way to think and live. As for the themes, Monday was an experiment and I decided to keep going with it. It felt right to have order this week. As for next week, only time will tell. <img src='http://wordsforhirellc.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@Jamie, welcome back!!! I missed you! Loved your post today! Laughing should be the national pasttime. I highly recommend it. As an added bonus it also works your abs! Gotta love laughter!</p>
<p>@Rebecca, I think you hit the nail on the head when you said you&#8217;re at peace when not everything gets done. Too often people allow &#8220;the list&#8221; to control their state of mind. Your attitude seems very healthy.</p>
<p>@Melissa, I always picture you with happy music playing in the background dancing through your day. From what you&#8217;ve shared with your readers, you do seem to find a way to strike a good balance. Freelancing can definitely lead to burn out if you don&#8217;t put yourself on the agenda. It is good that you have been able to recognize that and fight to prevent it.</p>
<p>@Seamus, it was well deserved link love. I saw your blog name over at MWP and had to rush over to read. I was delighted and hooked. We could be fish food tomorrow. Some find that morbid but an awareness of our mortality is a good reminder to sniff while we can! <img src='http://wordsforhirellc.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@Evelyn, I like your attitude! My changes came as I went through life transitions. Was there a particular trigger for you or did you just reach a point where you got tired of being productive all the time?</p>
<p>@Alex, <img src='http://wordsforhirellc.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  You are such a warm, sweet soul. I&#8217;m like you. On the weekends I power down. I spend very little time on the computer and am not at all freaked out about not checking email, etc. </p>
<p>@Ulla, you graciously share that serenity with us through your photographs, and I am so thankful you do. I often feel like I&#8217;ve been on  mini-vacation when I leave your blog. I&#8217;m all for getting things done too but there&#8217;s more to life, in my humble opinion. <img src='http://wordsforhirellc.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@Amy, yay! So good to see you!!! <img src='http://wordsforhirellc.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />  I have been counting down the days when you return. I think we all have seasons in life when we have less play time. The trick I think is to contain it to a season and not a lifetime. That&#8217;s when life seems to slip away far too quickly.</p>
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		<title>By: amypalko</title>
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		<dc:creator>amypalko</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 09:43:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Time is, for me, of the essence at the moment. I&#039;m working to a set of really tight deadlines for my writing, as well as trying to keep up with my kids and my tutoring business. I&#039;m definitely not finding the time to enjoy my world as much as I need to in order to feel whole and happy.  Even when I do take time to stop and relax, I feel guilty for not working.  I can live with it just now, because I know that once the thesis is submitted things will change, but in all honesty, it can&#039;t come soon enough!

amypalkos last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lessordinary.org.uk/index.php/2008/09/amy-loves-etsy/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Amy Loves Etsy&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Time is, for me, of the essence at the moment. I&#8217;m working to a set of really tight deadlines for my writing, as well as trying to keep up with my kids and my tutoring business. I&#8217;m definitely not finding the time to enjoy my world as much as I need to in order to feel whole and happy.  Even when I do take time to stop and relax, I feel guilty for not working.  I can live with it just now, because I know that once the thesis is submitted things will change, but in all honesty, it can&#8217;t come soon enough!</p>
<p>amypalkos last blog post..<a href="http://www.lessordinary.org.uk/index.php/2008/09/amy-loves-etsy/" rel="nofollow">Amy Loves Etsy</a></p>
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