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		<title>By: Janice Cartier</title>
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		<dc:creator>Janice Cartier</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Nov 2008 16:33:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Flaws with flair&quot;.  Love that.

There is a running inside joke that in the South we don&#039;t hide our crazy aunts in the attic, we put them right in the drawing room where they become eccentric characters to celebrate.

Never thought to do that with my flaws...LOL

Amazing thing this NaNoWriMo.

Janice Cartiers last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/cartier/paintings/~3/451863578/hi-ho-hi-ho.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Hi Ho Hi Ho&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Flaws with flair&#8221;.  Love that.</p>
<p>There is a running inside joke that in the South we don&#8217;t hide our crazy aunts in the attic, we put them right in the drawing room where they become eccentric characters to celebrate.</p>
<p>Never thought to do that with my flaws&#8230;LOL</p>
<p>Amazing thing this NaNoWriMo.</p>
<p>Janice Cartiers last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/cartier/paintings/~3/451863578/hi-ho-hi-ho.html" rel="nofollow">Hi Ho Hi Ho</a></p>
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		<title>By: Alex Fayle &#124; Someday Syndrome</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Fayle &#124; Someday Syndrome</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Nov 2008 16:55:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve learned to deal with some of my perfectionist tendencies. 

When I write lots I tend to get overwhelmed by the story and have to walk away for a bit. This means that I&#039;m not writing and that pisses me off. But I know myself and if I do push myself to write, then I&#039;ll write crap and then will just go back to where I felt I left off the good stuff and rewrite.

This means that my writing goes much more slowly than someone else&#039;s but it also means that I have a pretty good version when it does hit the paper.

Some would say just write because bad writing can be edited, but bad writing just makes me mad and makes me not want to write.

In a month like NaNo, however, my slow production annoys me. I haven&#039;t yet figured out how to manage the word count self-expectations and the perfectionist leanings...

Alex Fayle &#124; Someday Syndromes last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://somedaysyndrome.com/2008/11/happiness-or-money-what-i-did-in-an-eitheror-situation/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Happiness or Money: What I Did in an Either/Or Situation&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve learned to deal with some of my perfectionist tendencies. </p>
<p>When I write lots I tend to get overwhelmed by the story and have to walk away for a bit. This means that I&#8217;m not writing and that pisses me off. But I know myself and if I do push myself to write, then I&#8217;ll write crap and then will just go back to where I felt I left off the good stuff and rewrite.</p>
<p>This means that my writing goes much more slowly than someone else&#8217;s but it also means that I have a pretty good version when it does hit the paper.</p>
<p>Some would say just write because bad writing can be edited, but bad writing just makes me mad and makes me not want to write.</p>
<p>In a month like NaNo, however, my slow production annoys me. I haven&#8217;t yet figured out how to manage the word count self-expectations and the perfectionist leanings&#8230;</p>
<p>Alex Fayle | Someday Syndromes last blog post..<a href="http://somedaysyndrome.com/2008/11/happiness-or-money-what-i-did-in-an-eitheror-situation/" rel="nofollow">Happiness or Money: What I Did in an Either/Or Situation</a></p>
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		<title>By: Ellen Weber</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ellen Weber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Nov 2008 03:54:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post and thanks for nudging the thinking along on this one, Karen! 

According to researchers such as Gordon Flett, perfection is not only bad for the brain but it creates procrastinators too. 

People tend to mistake excellence - which is a wonderful target to aspire to, and perfectionism - which causes mental chains. 

What do you think?

Ellen Webers last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.brainleadersandlearners.com/mita-celebration/what-i-learned-from-goverment/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;What I Learned from Goverment&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post and thanks for nudging the thinking along on this one, Karen! </p>
<p>According to researchers such as Gordon Flett, perfection is not only bad for the brain but it creates procrastinators too. </p>
<p>People tend to mistake excellence &#8211; which is a wonderful target to aspire to, and perfectionism &#8211; which causes mental chains. </p>
<p>What do you think?</p>
<p>Ellen Webers last blog post..<a href="http://www.brainleadersandlearners.com/mita-celebration/what-i-learned-from-goverment/" rel="nofollow">What I Learned from Goverment</a></p>
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		<title>By: Brett Legree</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brett Legree</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 19:33:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Perhaps perfection is in the eye of the beholder?

If you give 100 percent to what you do, if you believe in it and love it, then whatever you do will be &quot;perfect&quot; in a manner of speaking, because no one else can do what you do as well as you can do it.

At least, that is what I have come to believe.

Brett Legrees last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/6weeksca/~3/439016740/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;summer’s end.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Perhaps perfection is in the eye of the beholder?</p>
<p>If you give 100 percent to what you do, if you believe in it and love it, then whatever you do will be &#8220;perfect&#8221; in a manner of speaking, because no one else can do what you do as well as you can do it.</p>
<p>At least, that is what I have come to believe.</p>
<p>Brett Legrees last blog post..<a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/6weeksca/~3/439016740/" rel="nofollow">summer’s end.</a></p>
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		<title>By: Jeanne Dininni</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeanne Dininni</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 16:40:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So glad to hear that, Karen!  We, too, are glad you&#039;ve shared your experience with us!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So glad to hear that, Karen!  We, too, are glad you&#8217;ve shared your experience with us!</p>
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		<title>By: Alina Popescu</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alina Popescu</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 15:43:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You are so right, Karen, we all strive to be perfect on as many levels as we can, although we know it&#039;s not possible! I think the freedom you&#039;re speaking of is a great goal for all of us to set. I&#039;ll let you know when I get there!
Alina

Alina Popescus last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://wordsofabrokenmirror.com/2008/11/04/switching-webhosters/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Packing and Getting Ready to Move&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are so right, Karen, we all strive to be perfect on as many levels as we can, although we know it&#8217;s not possible! I think the freedom you&#8217;re speaking of is a great goal for all of us to set. I&#8217;ll let you know when I get there!<br />
Alina</p>
<p>Alina Popescus last blog post..<a href="http://wordsofabrokenmirror.com/2008/11/04/switching-webhosters/" rel="nofollow">Packing and Getting Ready to Move</a></p>
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		<title>By: Karen Swim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Swim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 14:34:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lillie,lol! What a lovely reminder! When you really look at it, it seems kind of silly that we pressure ourselves in that way.  Goodness, you are so right that lots of eyes can review something and still there will be an error, a flaw. Thank you Lillie!  :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lillie,lol! What a lovely reminder! When you really look at it, it seems kind of silly that we pressure ourselves in that way.  Goodness, you are so right that lots of eyes can review something and still there will be an error, a flaw. Thank you Lillie!  <img src='http://wordsforhirellc.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Karen Swim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Swim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 14:31:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oooh, flaws with flair! I like it! :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oooh, flaws with flair! I like it! <img src='http://wordsforhirellc.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Karen Swim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Swim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 14:30:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Evelyn, you are so right! I need those periodic reminders to be kind to myself. It&#039;s funny how we are so gentle with others and so hard on ourselves, isn&#039;t it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Evelyn, you are so right! I need those periodic reminders to be kind to myself. It&#8217;s funny how we are so gentle with others and so hard on ourselves, isn&#8217;t it?</p>
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		<title>By: Karen Swim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Swim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Nov 2008 14:28:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Alex, that is such a great insight! You are right, when we write we seem to turn off the inner critic and our hand just flows across the page but when typing the delete key is within reach and begs to be tapped. Learning a new language is humbling. I applaud you. It is also fulfilling because I&#039;m sure you had the experience of locals cheering you on for trying. My Spanish has at times been excellent and other times rusty but when talking to natives they were always too happy to oblige me for trying. There&#039;s a lesson in there, eh? :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alex, that is such a great insight! You are right, when we write we seem to turn off the inner critic and our hand just flows across the page but when typing the delete key is within reach and begs to be tapped. Learning a new language is humbling. I applaud you. It is also fulfilling because I&#8217;m sure you had the experience of locals cheering you on for trying. My Spanish has at times been excellent and other times rusty but when talking to natives they were always too happy to oblige me for trying. There&#8217;s a lesson in there, eh? <img src='http://wordsforhirellc.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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