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Santa Cause or the Grinch who Stole your Present?

December 8, 2008 by Karen Swim

Crying child

Image by Eduardo Deboni via Flickr

When Charity is not Charitable

In lieu of holiday gifts to employees, vendors, customers or even family members, you opt to donate to a charity in their name. You feel good that you have given a meaningful gift. After all helping the sick, needy, homeless or starving child is much better than a box of chocolate, holiday basket or scarf. Right?  While your insides may be warm and mushy from your charitable act the recipient may not be feeling your vibe.

At my old job, someone had the great idea one year to give to a charity in lieu of gifts to clients. Our Marketing Department (I had not made the move to Marketing yet and was a Sales Manager.) worked with vendors and ordered customized holiday cards that wished our customers Happy Holidays and proudly declared the gift that was given in their name. It was a disaster. It turns out that our customers preferred calendars and calorie laden gifts to a gift in their name.

My region negotiated a discount with See’s Candies and used our expense budget to make our customers happy with chocolate. The company went back to tradition the following year.

This was a noble idea that went horribly wrong. My company did a great thing for the charity by giving them exactly what they needed – money. However, they did a disservice to their customers by failing to remember the primary reason for giving – the recipient.

A gift should make the recipient feel valued. A donation in their name, unless expressly requested, can look like a “cheap” way out of putting thought and money into a “real gift.” Customers who have spent their dollars with you, vendors who have served you or employees who have contributed to your success appreciate knowing that their support was meaningful. It would have been far better to send a holiday card with a sincere message than a “donation in your name” message.

The recipient may not agree with your choice of charity. While giving a goat to a family in a third world country seems like a perfect gift to you, your recipient may not share your belief. Remember this is your gift to them not to yourself.

Instead of a donation in lieu of a gift, consider the following alternatives:

  • Many charities sell gift items. A portion of your purchase supports the charity. This is a great way to benefit the charity and give a wonderful gift.
  • Buy your holiday cards from a charity. For many years, I bought cards from one of my favorite charities instead of retail stores.
  • Volunteer or raise money for charity as a group. Ask colleagues and family members if they’d prefer to skip the gift exchange in favor of a charitable pursuit (more on this later in the week).
  • If you are a business owner, give a gift to charity and announce it to customers. You can still share the joy with customers by putting a blurb in your newsletter or website.

I am a firm believer in charitable giving but when it comes to gifts, do consider the receiver. If the cause  is not meaningful to them you may want to opt for the box of chocolates instead.

Have you ever received a gift that left you feeling giftless? How do you feel about cause related gift giving? Join the discussion and let’s learn and laugh together.

Resources:

  • Great tips and ideas when cause related giving fits the receiver. Charitable Holiday Gift Ideas
  • Holiday Gift Guide for Social Entrepreneurs
  • Shop for Charity – Find causes to support and charitable gifts to to give
  • Scarves for Sofia – Handmade scarves, proceeds will help a family with their international donation.
  • Lillie Amman’s Christmas Giving Tips and Suggestions
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The Thief Who Stole November

November 11, 2008 by Karen Swim

Wild Turkeys - 4:40pmImage by Chris Seufert via Flickr

Written by Karen D. Swim

In the United States today is Veteran’s Day. The holiday was originally known as Armistice Day and was to commemorate the temporary cessation of hostilities, between the Allied nations and Germany that went into effect on the eleventh hour of the eleventh day of the eleventh month.” In 1919 President Eisenhower had this to say:

“To us in America, the reflections of Armistice Day will be filled with solemn pride in the heroism of those
who died in the country’s service and with gratitude for the victory, both because of the thing from which it has freed us and because of the opportunity it has given America to show her sympathy with peace and justice in the councils of the nations…”

I don’t know about you but a day to honor heroism, freedom, justice and peace doesn’t seem to be a bad deal. But this Veteran’s Day it seems to be business as usual. Banks and schools are open and there is no parade or flag flying. This day like the rest of November has been forgotten.

Veteran’s Day and Thanksgiving have been shoved aside while marketers turn our attention to Christmas. The stores have been decked out in Christmas decorations since November 1st. Wreaths, ornaments and wrapping paper sit next to the Halloween sale items.  Christmas carols play in the background with hopes of putting shoppers in a buying mood.

November has been shelved like a cheap polyester suit. It’s as though someone declared, “There’s no money in Thanksgiving. Push Christmas, that’s where the money is at. Push it early and we’ll double our profits.” Well, I like November! I like the crunch of Fall leaves and impromptu football games. I love Veteran’s Day parades and little flags that  you can hold in your hand. I like pausing for a day and being grateful for my freedoms. I love Thanksgiving Day – a day where we celebrate the things that really matter in our life.  I WANT MY NOVEMBER BACK!

I know that the eocnomy is bad but is this truly the answer? To my thinking, our present economic state is all the more reason for savoring a month of Thanksgiving. What better time to connect with what matters and give thanks? Why wouldn’t we want to slow the pace down this month and allow our minds and body a break from the stress of this past year?

I’m not ready to deck the halls and ring the sleigh bells.  I want tofurkey, and cranberry sauce. I want to gather with my family and marvel at how the youngsters have grown and laugh at my Grandmother’s jokes. I want to walk in a house filled with the warmth of family and inhale the intoxicating scent of cinnamon.  I want to squeeze into a tiny little space on the couch and yell at the football game. Is it really necessary to squeeze out November to make a buck?

What are you seeing where you live? Is this November different for you? I’ll be watching the Charlie Brown Thanksgiving special and looking for the last remaining pile of leaves. Join me?  🙂

References:

Veterans’s Day

Thanksgiving Day

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