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What I Learned From Crying on My Blog

January 16, 2009 by Karen Swim

Peek A Boo
Image by Cayusa via Flickr

Written by Karen D. Swim

I pierced the veil of secrecy and shame daring to reveal a heart filled with pain
Silencing voices in my head, moving past fear and dread
Like a swiftly moving current support rolled in, as I was enveloped in a cocoon of love by my friends
.

Yes Virginia, there is a person behind the avatar. A beating heart, a living being that will respond when you reveal that you too are human. On Tuesday, I was joyfully reminded that technology is not a barrier to connection but a conduit that allows us to create friendships and communities in spite of the miles.

With the potential we possess to truly develop relationships and build communities, I wonder why there persists a tendency to do the opposite. We have a bevy of social media tools that invite conversation and sharing yet many dehumanize the process with a focus on metrics and statistics. In fact, just today Steve Woodruff thoughtfully remarked in a tweet:

“How I built a Twitter network of ____ in ___ days.” Sheesh. How about, how to build relationships and add value over the long-term??

To that I say, Amen! I read articles, posts and tweets on how to build subscriber numbers, how to drive traffic to your website and how to build an empire on a social media network, but are we missing the true value of developing relationships with real people?

Tuesday reinforced my own personal belief that doing business on the internet does not have to be impersonal. Your friendship and support not only made the difference in a tough week but validated my stand that authenticity and transparency are more than trendy buzzwords of the day.

When you focus on humanity, on connecting honestly and openly it is not detrimental to your professional brand or business but an opportunity to truly build long term value and have deeper engagements with people.

As a human being, I am thankful that no matter where I am I can reach out to a community courtesy of the interwebs. As a marketer, I am excited at forming and teaching others to go beyond one-way marketing messages and develop relationships with the people who are at the other end of that connection.

It is time to shed the decades old corporate assertion that doing business is “swimming with sharks.” We do business with people, not numbers to be manipulated into clicking our junk and buying our stuff.  Instead of screaming to be heard, quietly listen and allow those human beings to tell you what they want and need.  You may be pleasantly surprised at just how pleasant business becomes when you make it personal.

What are your thoughts? Feel free to share in the comments, discussion is gratefully welcomed here! 🙂

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Filed Under: Marketing, Social Media Tagged With: friendship, Marketing, Social Media

Five in the Morning

January 9, 2009 by Karen Swim

coffee
Image by uberculture via Flickr

Written by Karen D. Swim

When Steve Woodruff gave me the opportunity to get in on the ground floor opportunity of the Five in the Morning franchise, I didn’t hesitate to say “count me in!” Of course  I then realized that his famous Five in the Morning posts really were 5 am. I love reading his posts, but admittedly I am never up at that hour. After unsuccessfully trying to negotiate a time zone that would put me closer to 9 in the morning, I acquiesced. I mean I kind of owe him seeing as how he did give me my dream job. So, without further pomp and circumstance, I’m proud to share five posts that are well worth reading…

Kelly Erickson reminds us that without a map you may miss your stop. Read her insightful post to map your business for success this year.

A new year signals change for many people and in this heartfelt post, Alex Fayle discusses the need to grieve what we are giving up before letting go and moving on.

BrandFreak treats us to a humorous look at marketing strategies by financial giant, Bank of America. Did B of A make an oop-oop-a -doop?

If you or companies you work with are wondering how to Make Your Corporate Blog Work for Your Brand, Not Against It, you will benefit from this social media case study on The Blog Council about how Kaiser Permanente is using social media to build their brand.

If you are still nto convinced on the benefits of Twitter, here’s an interesting story about Twitter’s day in court by Rex Gradeless, Social Media Law Student.

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Follow Steve Woodruff on Twitter

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Filed Under: Ideas, Marketing Tagged With: Add new tag, Bank of America, Blog Council, business, five in the morning, Kaiser Permanente, Marketing, Social Media, steve woodruff, Twitter

A Design for a New Day

October 22, 2008 by Karen Swim

Building Blocks

Image by Holger Zscheyge via Flickr

Written by Karen D. Swim

How often have you questioned a process and heard “I don’t know, we’ve always done it this way” in response? Corporations are often like rusty old trains with an inability to stop on a dime, check out new scenery or even change directions. People and companies go along following processes and procedures just because they exist, most never questioning until a consultant comes in and replaces their round hole with a square peg.  The story below is a funny illustration, courtesy of a client, Jeremiah Josey.

A newly married couple were in the kitchen one Sunday. The wife was preparing a piece of lamb for roasting and the husband was preparing the vegetables. The husband observed as the wife placed the piece of lamb onto the chopping block and promptly chopped 4 inches from each end, discarded the pieces into the bin. She then placed the lamb into the center of the large baking tray, around which the husband began to place the vegetables.

The husband asks, “Why did you do that darling, that looked like perfectly good lamb you through away?”

“Oh, I never think of it”, she replied. “Mother always did it and that’s what she taught me. We can ask her when we visit her for roast dinner next Sunday.”

So, that next Sunday they visited Mother for her Sunday roast and were served roast lamb and vegetables. Looking at the roast they could both see clearly that the ends had been cut off.

The daughter asked, “Mother, why are then ends missing from the roast?”

“It’s because… I honestly don’t know”, replied Mother. “I’ve always done it that way, just like my mother taught me. She is visiting next week so come for dinner again and we can ask her”.

So, another week passed and they were all seated at the table for Sunday roast, this time Grand Mother is present. And, like last week, the roast with its ends removed appears from the kitchen.

“Grand Mother,” begins the husband, “I’ve seen both your daughter and your grand daughter cut both ends of a perfectly good roast before they cook it, and I was wondering why you taught them to do it that way.”

“That is a very good question Grand Son.” says Grand Mother. “For many years when my daughter was growing up, we lived in a small apartment in New York. In that apartment we had a very small oven with a very small door, and the only way for me to cook my Sunday roast was to cut the ends off so it would fit into the small baking tray I used to fit into the oven. I stopped doing that years ago, ever since I got a larger oven – after my daughter left home I recall. Why waste perfectly good meat?”

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Jeremiah’s story illustrates the insanity of repeating a process without question. However, changing from a round hole to a square peg is also not always the right answer.  Rather, we must assess our processes and actions and create solutions that fit, sometimes that will be a round hole and at other times it may be a combination.  The innovation is not always in the solution but the approach – a willingness to try something that has never been done to look beyond your company and industry for ideas and solutions.

This integrated approach is called Design Thinking.  This video explains it in greater detail.

As we move forward it is clear that the “same old way” will get us the same old results. As you look at your own company or business,  are there things you do out of habit and routine? Do they still make sense? Simply asking the question can pave the way for innovation.

So what do you think of this integrated approach? Is this something you are already doing? Let’s learn from one another. Share your thoughts, and ideas in the comments.

Thanks to Society for Word of Mouth for the article and resources on Design Thinking that prompted this post!

References:

  • US Treasury Secretary on Design Thinking
  • New York Times Article on Design Thinking
  • Wikipedia Overview of Design Thinking
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Filed Under: Marketing Tagged With: business, design thinking, Marketing

You’ve Got the Sizzle Baby but Where’s the Steak?

October 20, 2008 by Karen Swim

Written by Karen D. Swim

Last week we talked about improving your marketing by adding a little sizzle. The combination of sizzle and substance will satisfy your market and entice them back for seconds.  The market can be forgiving of a lack of sizzle when the company has substance and high visibility.  Consider Google, who from the inception has focused on technical savvy and functionality rather than visually pleasing aesthetics. Craigslist is a visual nightmare but that has not stood in the way of worldwide use of the site.  Sizzle combined with substance provides a competitive advantage. On the other hand, a lack of substance is a guaranteed way to leave your readers hungry and searching for fulfillment elsewhere.

Here are three tips to help you fill your customer’s plate:

Pay attention to your content. You may believe that in this day when everyone skims rather than reads that you can let your content slide. Wrong! I visited a site last week that was breathtaking in its design aesthetics. Wanting to learn more about the company, I made the mistake of reading the content. I had to force myself not to rip my eyes out of my head.  The grammatical errors made me cringe. Instead of articulate, easy to read sentences there were run on paragraphs of buzzwords. It was obvious the company had intended to appeal to their market with “inside” language but the words hung together like puzzle pieces that were not in their proper place.  Even the press releases were a disaster! Please realize that your website, brochure or one-sheet may be your potential customer’s introduction to you and your company. Take the time to ensure that it is well written because many wil take time to actually read it.

Consider your market, and not your personal preferences. I recently worked with a client on a re-branding effort. His previous marketing materials including his website reflected his own personal tastes. The problem, however is that the marketing messages and images were completely unaligned with his company’s brand. The messages did not appeal to his target audience and the images clashed with the content. The result was an ineffective mess.  Your marketing should reflect some personality but ensure that you do so in a way that is not out of line with your market or brand image.

Tell them what, why and how in simple language.  When your potential customers read your words, they are essentially having a conversation with your company.  As you write, think of what you would say to Joe The Plumber or Shawna the Soccer Mom if they asked “What does your company do?” Will you answer them with industry acronyms or search optimized phrases? Or will you give than an easy to understand  explanation of how you help your market?  If you sell Pizza don’t tell them that you take dough, shape it into a sphere and lovingly cover it with freshly pureed tomatoes. Tell them you make pizza!

Your marketing does not have to be perfect to be effective.  A reader may forgive a typo (it happens in spite of our best efforts) but is unlikely to forgive unintentional grammatical errors, or wordy sentences that say nothing.  Treat your market with respect by delivering substance.

Have you ever made a purchase based on sizzle and been disappointed with the results?  Did it change the way you evaluate purchases?  Feel free to share your experiences, insights, or questions in the comments.  If you have specific questions you would like to see answered in a future post, shoot me an email at karenswim [at] gmail [dot] com.

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Filed Under: Marketing Tagged With: Brand, Marketing, Marketing and Advertising

Perception and Art

August 27, 2008 by Karen Swim

Written by Karen D. Swim

The picture to the right is a Rorschach ink blot. I became quite familiar with Rorschach as a Psychobiology major in college.

Rorschach ink blots (developed by Hermann Rorschach) are a projective psychometric test. The theory is that when you show the ink blots to patients, each individual will  project his or her real personality into the ink blot via the interpretation.  The results were to provide a clue into the person’s psyche.

It is fascinating to see how differently each person will interpret an ink blot. What do you see in the photo to the right – the silhouette of a woman, armadillos crawling along a desert, kidneys? Each person will see something slightly different. As we view the ink blot we impose our own perspective shaped by our life experiences.

The efficacy of the ink blot has been questioned but the underlying theory that we can look at the same thing and see something different is incontrovertible.  Law enforcement officers understand this theory well. If multiple people witness an incident,  there will be some commonalities but each version will be slightly different.

We bring our perceptions to everything we read, see, hear and touch.  For the writer, artist, photographer or marketer it is a truth that we must not only recognize but embrace.  The interpretation of our words, paintings, sculptures, and photographs belong entirely to the beholder.  This is the beauty and challenge of our work.  In a Writer’s Digest interview, Isabel Allende offered these thoughts:

“I’m not the one who invents the stories; I’m like a radio that picks up the waves. Somehow if I move the dial very carefully, I’ll pick up the wave and get the story. But the story doesn’t belong to me; it’s somewhere out there floating. That’s very liberating.” (Writer’s Digest, Oct. 2008)

The story, photo, painting, novel, marketing message or even blog post does not belong to the creator but to those who will shape it, interpret it and experience it through the lens of their perception. As we create we bear the burden of this knowledge. No matter how clearly we seek to articulate our ideas, thoughts and concepts not everyone will see them as presented. Once created, we must find the liberation that Allende alludes to by simply letting go.

I take comfort in  knowing that in this way all truth has its own element of fiction.  I release the responsibility of attaining perfection and yield myself to being the receptor of the waves intended for me.  I am the vessel and not the creator. I can let go and take pleasure watching the work float “out there” free to become what each reader wants and needs it to be.  Liberating? Indeed.

Now over to you reader, it’s your post, share your interpretation. The comment box is open and it’s your turn at the mic.

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Filed Under: Insights, Marketing Tagged With: Add new tag, Isabel Allende, Marketing, Perception and art, Rorschach inkblot test

The 5 Marketing Lessons I Learned From Don Cheadle

August 19, 2008 by Karen Swim

Hotel RwandaImage via Wikipedia

Written by Karen D. Swim

Don Cheadle is a fabulous actor. In fact he is so good you may not recognize his name. It is this incredible talent that makes Cheadle a role model for awesome, knock your socks off marketing.

Cheadle allows his role to be the star. Cheadle lets the character and dialogue speak. He yields himself as a vessel never taking center stage.  In this same way, you should not upstage your marketing. If your copy is all about YOU, then you have failed at Cheadle lesson number 1 – it’s not about you.

Cheadle makes you feel it. We know the rule – engage their emotions, but Cheadle shows us how to master the technique. Cheadle’s roles get under your skin and stay there for a long time. I remain haunted by Hotel Rwanda. I was pulled into the story as though Cheadle reached out from the big screen and offered me his hand.  Because I was all in,  heart pounding, mind racing I did not forget.  Hotel Rwanda led to a passionate activism on behalf of Darfur. Your marketing copy should make your customers feel and do. The words should wrap around your customers, caressing their senses and inviting them into the story.

Cheadle has a clear brand identity. Cheadle is an actor period. His life, interests and pursuits have not sullied or overshadowed his brand. If you know his name, you’re not thinking “guy who only eats green M&Ms,” or co-mingling his name with some too skinny starlet. Nope, he’s an actor. You can articulate his brand. The dude has a clear identity. Watch and learn dear marketers.

Cheadle does not use cheap gimmicks. Cheadle is very good at his job and that is his calling card. He did not have to create a strange persona, adopt an addiiction and create a new 12 step program, date someone several cards short of a full deck or jump on a couch. Cheadle is an actor who can act.  When you can do what you claim, well that really is the best kind of marketing of all.
Cheadle is consistent. In role after role, he delivers the goods. It doesn’t matter if the movie is a blockbuster, academy award winner or a little known film. You can count on Cheadle to be a good actor. Your marketing messages will of course change but your core values and your commitment to quality should remain steadfast and true. Your customers should be able to count on you today and tomorrow.

Cheadle may not be the biggest named star in Hollywood, but he definitely has sustainability. Anyone can be a flash in the pan hottie but it takes real talent to build and sustain a brand.

What are your tips for marketing success? Have you gained any insight from your favorite actors?

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Filed Under: Marketing Tagged With: Don Cheadle, Marketing

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