Written by Karen D. Swim
“A book is a gift you can open again and again.” —
Garrison Keillor
I awakened to a cold dark morning. Without a trace of daylight, there was no external sign that it was in fact morning. I arose and made my way through darkness to open blinds and curtains in hopeful anticipation of light. As I peered out my front window I spotted a light from across the pond and silently recited: “But, soft! What light through yonder window breaks? ” It is a line from Romeo and Juliet (Act 2, Scene 2) and it’s tortured romance seemed to fit my morning unrest.
As I pondered the line again, I realized that I have not read or thought of this play in several years. My introduction to it was 40 years ago and yet the words effortlessly sprang to mind. While partly a testament to the beauty of Shakespeare’s writing, the larger truth speaks to the gift of words.
Words have staying power. The reasons a particular combination of words live on in our minds are as varied as the individuals who recall them. I only know that when we need them words are there. Words are not the sole domain of the artist but like open source software they are free to everyone. We can tweak them, create new applications, and use them in ways not originally intended.
Our words can be a gift that we freely give each day. A simple note tucked into a child’s backpack can fill a heart with warmth when discovered and read. A favorite movie line spoken to a friend in need can inspire her to get back on track. “I’m sorry” can heal a wound, “I believe” can change a life. Our words need not be eloquent or lengthy, simple and heartfelt are all that is required of this gift.
This time of year we box up presents in fancy wrap and top it with a bow. In our rush to give we may miss the opportunity to give and receive a gift that is with us daily. Words of kindness are in endless supply. There is no line on which to wait for a cheery “Good Morning” or “Have a wonderful day.” Words of gratitude will not be taxed when given to those who stand behind the counter.
I wish for you today a day that is filled with words that bring peace, joy and laughter.
Can you recall a time when words were a gift? Feel free to share your favorite memories, quotes, lines or songs or anything else that’s on your mind. Your comments are always welcomed.
Karen Swim says
Melissa, it is such a timeless story and the words just get me every time. I so love the magic that can be created with words. 🙂
Melissa Donovan says
What a beautiful post, Karen. I love “Romeo and Juliet.” It’s truly one of Shakespeare’s best and it’s no wonder that the lines are still memorable and quotable.
Karen Swim says
Andrew, that is a wonderful point about names and one we often forget. I love the Zig Ziglar quote and I believe that even today it is sadly still true. Thank you so much for adding your thoughts to the discussion Andrew. You are wise beyond your years.
Andrew says
Karen,
Motivational speaker Zig Ziglar once commented that whilst many people go to bed hungry every night, many more go to sleep hungry for affection.
And a few simple words can make all the difference in this regard. Two simple words, “Thank you,” are amongst the two most important in the dictionary, whilst those of “I love you,” are not far behind when dealing with partners or family.
But I think one of the most important words you can say to a person is their own name. Names give each of us identity, and when we call someone by name, we make a big statement about our respect for them as individuals.
Ulla Hennig says
Karen,
what a wonderful post! Yes, we can heal with words, cheer up other people with words, express our feelings and love. But we should always keep in mind that we can also hurt with words, damage relationships and afflict pain. So there’s a big responsibility for all of us.
Karen Swim says
Brad, these are awesome and I might I say nicely done with the Zevon! 🙂
Brad Shorr says
Karen, Great post!!! Some of my favorites …
And now for something completely different. (Monty Python)
In Xanadu did Kubla Khan a stately pleasure-dome decree,
Where Alph, the sacred river ran,
Through caverns measureless to man,
Down to a sunless sea. (Coleridge)
We’re not in Kansas any more. (The Wizard of Oz)
He’s the hairy handed gent who ran amok in Kent,
Lately he’s been overheard in Mayfair.
You better stay away from him
He’ll rip your lungs out, Jim
I’d like to meet his tailor. (Warren Zevon)
Iyabo Asani says
I love this post. I use my gift of the written word all the time. I enjoy it. I love the intimacy that a string of words can yield. The right words connect me with Source.
I found with my clients that if they do not practice creative expression, whether through writing, painting, singing or something, they get stagnant and stuck in their lives.
Writing has helped me move through feeling stuck. I never know what is going to come out of me when I write. I make connections on the keyboard that I am not aware of my mind making.
I consider it the way to download what is in there so you can clear room for more downloads.
Thanks
Iyabo Asani
http://www.AuthenticChangeCoach.com
Karen Swim says
Awwww Jamie, your words are always a gift to me. -)
Jamie Grove - How Not To Write says
For me, words are a constant gift. They comfort me when I am feeling troubled and raise my spirits when things look dim. Words come in the night on little cat feet and paw about the edges of my sleep, caressing or rousing me to take them up in my arms and hold them close to my heart.
Great post, Karen!
[apologies to Carl Sandburg and the cat feet of his marvelous poem “Fog”]
Karen Swim says
@Joanna, I knew that I could count on you to agree. 🙂 In fact thought of your powerful writing month – so many great lesson there to be revisited.
@Robert, I love what you say about quotes! Yes, yes, you’re right! A good quote just recreates the entire moment and sticks right there in your head. I love that! “Luke…” That’s going to make me laugh for the rest of the day! Thanks for the gift….of words… bwahhahhahaha
Robert Hruzek says
Wonderful words, Karen, and nicely packaged, too! Words are so powerful, sometimes I get a little terrified at the effect what I say might have. But then, of course, I keep on goin’. I mean, what the hey, right? 😉
Now, the thing I like best about great quotes from books, movies, or whatever – they often have a way of compressing an entire conversation/feel/experience into a quick phrase or two.
“Frankly my dear, I don’t give a… whoopee” can remind us of an entire afternoon’s worth of drama, frustration, or whatever. And who can’t viscerally feel the impact of “Luke… I am your father!” (accompanied by the sound of asthmatic breathing)?
Yup; words are pretty powerful things, aren’t they? And to tell you the truth (some we always strive for at the Middle Zone), once I get past the terrified part, they’re really a lot of fun to play with!
Joanna Young says
A lovely simple reminder of the power of words. You won’t find me disagreeing 🙂